Suited hands stretch, AJo goes. Out of position and deep, dominated offsuit hands are pure liability.
Calling ranges widen before 3-betting ranges do — set-mining and suited-connector calls gain value faster than thin 3-bets.
You close the action with a discount — but out of position against the strongest range at the table. Defend real hands, not stubbornness.
Assumes a ~4bb open; 3-bet to ~3x the open in position, ~4x from the blinds — larger as stacks deepen.